Scorned Mistress

Ya know--cheating is just sooooo not worth it! It hurts EVERYONE.

And don't hand me that old cliche about the libido of rich and powerful men. I don't buy it. Cheating happens just as often with not-so-rich men AND women.

I have no respect for anyone, male or female, who chooses (and that is the operative word here, folks-- CHOOSES) to cheat. None. Not one iota.

I also don't buy this 'soul mate'... excuse me... CRAP, either. It is an excuse, and it is a justification for CHOOSING to go outside of your marriage, period.

On your wedding day, you made VOWS, which are much deeper than a simple promise. If you cannot keep a promise, you won't keep your vows, either. Don't tell me that you can make a promise to your child and keep it if you cannot keep your marital promise, because I won't believe you. I probably also won't believe any other promise you make, either. SHOW ME, but DOING IT.

There is no excuse. And don't try to tell me how rotten your spouse is to you! If YOU are the one cheating, YOU are the rotten one! If you are not married, and set your sights on a married person, YOU are the rotten one! Some people seem to think that it is fun to 'go after' a married target, as if it is a badge of honor to break up a marriage. And some fools fall for that seduction. Others think it is fun to put more notches in their belts by having multiple 'affairs'. Does that make you a REAL MAN or a REAL WOMAN??? It makes you a fool who cares not one iota for your spouse, or for your children.

'It just happened'... B*** S***!!! It is a CHOICE. Stay away from temptation... it used to be phrased "Avoid the NEAR OCCASION OF SIN', but today, no one wants to hear that. Most of the time, you are not avoiding it...you are ENJOYING it!

Don't even bother to try to tell me that it takes two to make a marriage, if YOU invited a THIRD PARTY into it!! YOU broke your vows. YOU hurt your spouse! YOU hurt your children, and they will NEVER be the same as a result of it! NEVER... for they will be torn 'between two worlds forever'.

Marriage is sacred. Marriage is something that you work on, together. NOT til 'love dies'... love doesn't die. Love is an action word, and it is a CHOICE, not a feeling.

Feelings come and go. CHOOSING to love, to forgive, to stay committed is the high road. CHEATING is not even the LOW ROAD, it is the SEWER.

And cheaters eventually get found out.

For the latest 'news', which is now there for all the world to see -- as well as a 10 yr old child... see the story :

Scorned Mistress of Married Obama Adviser Posts Billboards Nationwide

And shame on both of them.